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But you do need to be a certain type of independent before you enter into a serious relationship. Even worse is the sickening thought of being the only single person out there surrounded by happy couples. When I worked with couples as a Domestic Violence Victim Advocate and Planned Parenthood Certified Responsible Sexuality Educator, I spoke with people who were so afraid of being single qhy they tolerated crappy relationships and swallowed a lot of unhappiness.
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